Struggling to balance parenthood and your relationship? Learn how you can build a stronger bond
How do you and your partner speak to each other? Are you taking the time to enjoy each other, do you find each other funny and interesting? What you present and how you feel about each other isn’t just for your own contentment – your child watches and learns.
Quick Read:
- Healthy, happy parenting starts by being healthy, happy individuals.
- Spending quality time together is necessary to continue bonding as parents and partners.
- Your children watch and learn from your behaviour as healthy parents – set a good example.
Parenthood is a rewarding journey, but it often comes with its fair share of challenges. Between managing your kids’ needs, work responsibilities, and everyday life, it’s easy to overlook your own wellbeing.
However, prioritising healthy habits isn’t just about self-care; it sets a powerful example for your children and strengthens your ability to be the best parent you can be.
From nurturing your physical health to fostering emotional resilience and maintaining strong relationships, adopting healthy habits can transform your parenting experience, creating a positive environment for your entire family to thrive.
Let’s explore some simple yet impactful ways to cultivate healthy habits and enjoy a happier, more balanced life as a parent.
A man’s true wealth is the health of his family. – Ugandan Proverb
Laugh together
People in a happy relationship enjoy each other’s jokes and quirks. They laugh at silly things, have inside jokes and can be crazy, random, and nonsensical together. Humour is also important for any parenting team – you need to be able to laugh together on this wild and weird journey that is parenthood!
Mind your manners
Do you say please and thank you to your partner? Do they reciprocate? There’s not much point teaching your child manners, kindness, and compassion if you’re not practising the same in your relationship. Talking nicely to each other is a sign of respect. It’s these little moments, gestures and phrases that remind each other that you’re a loving team. This goes double for during arguments. You don’t have to be super affectionate in the midst of a fight, but politeness still goes a long way.
Share the responsibility
This is a big one. Sharing the job of parenting while juggling other work is a huge win for happy parents. It’s important for the balance of your relationship, so one person doesn’t feel solely responsible for keeping things going. If the workload is one-sided, you’re setting the foundation for resentment and unhappiness.
Learn from each other
You know those moments when you’re sitting together as a family, having supper and your partner is sharing something interesting about their day? What are you doing at that moment? Leaning in to get the story? Zoning out? Responding to texts? Couples with a strong relationship are fascinated by each other and are constantly learning from each other. You share details about your work, hobbies, things on the news and are genuinely interested in each other’s views and opinions.
Make time for each other
That means… without the kids tagging along. Being part of a loving, thriving couple means time alone, going on dates, connecting, chatting, and enjoying life together. Kids are part of your family, yes, but first and foremost, you are a couple. Weekly dates are a great idea, even if you only have an hour to spare. Catch up with no shop talk! Go for a walk, have lunch together, go swimming – it’s all about togetherness doing things you both enjoy.
Parenthood is a beautiful journey
Being in a happy parenting relationship isn’t just great for your children. There’s actual research to show that healthy parenthood and being part of a loving partnership can help lower your risk of heart disease and stroke. Loving couples tend to live longer, have greater financial wellbeing and fewer mental health risk factors.
Remember… a happy family starts with two happy, healthy, and loving parents.
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